2007.. She who is 17 was found lack of love. She is staying with her mother and a sister(elder) as her dad passed away in 2003. 3 ladies in one roof but could not get along.
She is lack of love.. Family love. She had a boyfriend in 2007, but her boyfriend is a rubbish, so she dumped him. Then, her sister, so happen to have a boyfriend too ignore her very often as she is too busy for
Sad to say, her mom never want to listen to her problems. Yesterday, she open her mouth and wanted to share some problems with her mom, her mom answered her like this: 'shut up, I want to watch tv'. So, she turned on the radio and sent a message to 988(Chinese channel) at 12.13a.m. She sent: I'm very sad, since my sis has a bf, I'm no longer her sis. I really miss her so much, but what can I do? Everytime I tried to talk to her, we quarrel led. And the DJ replied: you depend too much on your sister. Then she reflected and she concluded that she is not dependent as she remembered her sister did not ever treat her like that-- ignore what she talk until she got fed up and stop talking.
Her mom, never ever care about her. She can go where ever she want and she never been called to do revision. What she hope is get some attention from her mom. She always think that her mom is lonely and thus she did not want to disturb her life. But, what did she get in return? Another curiosity is why her mom always scold her sister when she got back late?
This girl is called Wong Moi Li. She changes everytime as she don't know how must she be to get some love from her family.
2 comments:
hmm..... i dont really noe how u guys act at home.. but sound will not b porduced with only one hand... but i dont think tat a parent will not care about their children, mayb she is cared about u in a way tat u dont understand ... try to b positive n dont argue wit ur parent cuz u will never will!! n she will think u r getting more rebellious n more arguement will come after tat... as she thought tats the only way to let u understand n learn...
ok??!!!
here is an advise where i find it useful expecially to get trust from ur parent..
try to let her to b well informed about ur dayly problems o laughter u faced in school when u all r hving diner o whenever the movie is hving a cormecial if u r watching it wit her... tis is how i talked to my mum... hope u can do it as well...
i had the feeling that this is the real reason you are the way you are..(confused?) i think ur mom don't "bother" with you as u put it because she probably knows you are responsible..from what i hear from you, she doesn't nag u to study etc. is because she knows that you study without being told and perhaps that you are independent enough? old enough to know whats right and wrong? that she trusts your sense of judgement? after all, you tend to tell her everything, and she's not worried that you'll do something foolish and her not knowing it at the end..remember? u told her bout Nick in the end, even if it wasn't really the total truth..so chill...and i agree with whiteclover here, try to stop arguing with her, even if you're right..even if you win, but both of u are angry, whats the point? and maybe u should tone down the way you talk..sometimes you tend to be a bit rude..sure, u may think ur family is used to it, but it isn't actually very nice..its ironic how we tend to behave the worse with our family..
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